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    Throughout the book: THE SETTLEMENT GAME: How to Settle an Estate Peacefully and Fairly, many possibilities for sources of conflict are outlined and discussed. Among these, three sources stand out as the main causes of conflict. Following is a brief summary of each, with an overview of what to do about them to help avoid family discord.

    1. Many of the problems that arise at the time of a division or settlement of an estate are caused by the interference from spouses or children of the heirs, not the immediate heirs themselves. In any discussion with people who have been through conflict in their family during the division process, this interference usually comes up. If you think about stories you have heard from people on this topic, there is usually

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    Throughout the book: THE SETTLEMENT GAME: How to Settle an Estate Peacefully and Fairly, many possibilities for sources of conflict are outlined and discussed. Among these, three sources stand out as the main causes of conflict. Following is a brief summary of each, with an overview of what to do about them to help avoid family discord.

    1. Many of the problems that arise at the time of a division or settlement of an estate are caused by the interference from spouses or children of the heirs, not the immediate heirs themselves. In any discussion with people who have been through conflict in their family during the division process, this interference usually comes up. If you think about stories you have heard from people on this topic, there is usuall

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    Throughout the book: THE SETTLEMENT GAME: How to Settle an Estate Peacefully and Fairly, many possibilities for sources of conflict are outlined and discussed. Among these, three sources stand out as the main causes of conflict. Following is a brief summary of each, with an overview of what to do about them to help avoid family discord.

    1. Many of the problems that arise at the time of a division or settlement of an estate are caused by the interference from spouses or children of the heirs, not the immediate heirs themselves. In any discussion with people who have been through conflict in their family during the division process, this interference usually comes up. If you think about stories you have heard from people on this topic, there is usuall

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    . Following is a brief summary of each, with an overview of what to do about them to help avoid family discord.

    1. Many of the problems that arise at the time of a division or settlement of an estate are caused by the interference from spouses or children of the heirs, not the immediate heirs themselves. In any discussion with people who have been through conflict in their family during the division process, this interference usually comes up. If you think about stories you have heard from people on this topic, there is usuall

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    How to avoid conflict from such:

    Rule # 1 - Only immediate heirs should be involved in the division process during the settlement of the estate. All outside influences, such as spouses, children, in-laws, grandchildren, and friends should NOT participate, especially at the beginning of the process.

    2. A second major cause of conflict comes from the early removal of items from the home place or estate, without the overall consent and approval of all other heirs. Once in a while you will hear of one of the heirs who simply goes in ahead of time and takes what they want – almost spitefully – or perhaps with

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