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    1) Manipulation through planting "issue landmines"

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    Last time we discussed ways an ex-spouse or ex-"significant other" can affect you by expressing opinions that you may actually still be considering as factual.

    Today, we're going to dive deeper. Just because you may be wise to the words your ex may use, what about his or her potentially manipulative actions? Some of that stuff is a lot more subtle.

    By getting you to buy in to reacting to certain actions on his or her part, an ex-spouse holds the potential of staying in a control position with you for months, years or even decades after the break-up happens.

    This, of course, is the proverbial Thing That Must Not Be. But you know that without me telling you…right? Okay then, let's see to stopping it.

    Take a look at the limited list of possible situations below, and think carefully about if and how any of the "subtleties" described affect you-and to what extent:

    1) Manipulation through planting "issue landmines"

    A real landmine works by inflicting explosive destruction whatever triggers it by crossing its path. Your ex can figuratively do this by creat

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    y be wise to the words your ex may use, what about his or her potentially manipulative actions? Some of that stuff is a lot more subtle.

    By getting you to buy in to reacting to certain actions on his or her part, an ex-spouse holds the potential of staying in a control position with you for months, years or even decades after the break-up happens.

    This, of course, is the proverbial Thing That Must Not Be. But you know that without me telling you…right? Okay then, let's see to stopping it.

    Take a look at the limited list of possible situations below, and think carefully about if and how any of the "subtleties" described affect you-and to what extent:

    1) Manipulation through planting "issue landmines"

    A real landmine works by inflicting explosive destruction whatever triggers it by crossing its path. Your ex can figuratively do this by crea

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    n ex-spouse holds the potential of staying in a control position with you for months, years or even decades after the break-up happens.

    This, of course, is the proverbial Thing That Must Not Be. But you know that without me telling you…right? Okay then, let's see to stopping it.

    Take a look at the limited list of possible situations below, and think carefully about if and how any of the "subtleties" described affect you-and to what extent:

    1) Manipulation through planting "issue landmines"

    A real landmine works by inflicting explosive destruction whatever triggers it by crossing its path. Your ex can figuratively do this by crea

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    ithout me telling you…right? Okay then, let's see to stopping it.

    Take a look at the limited list of possible situations below, and think carefully about if and how any of the "subtleties" described affect you-and to what extent:

    1) Manipulation through planting "issue landmines"

    A real landmine works by inflicting explosive destruction whatever triggers it by crossing its path. Your ex can figuratively do this by crea

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    to what extent:

    1) Manipulation through planting "issue landmines"

    A real landmine works by inflicting explosive destruction whatever triggers it by crossing its path. Your ex can figuratively do this by creating "issues" that appear to demand your attention. Often, this is done in an attempt to divert energy, inflict hardship or even simply to rattle you.

    Anytime something comes up courtesy of your ex that could have been easily dealt with by the ex him/herself without your help, introduces complexity with questionable necessity and/or is presented with extreme urgency (i.e. "You have to do this RIGHT NOW.") you now know what you are looking at.

    Examples include calls about something received in the mail, rumors and/or "rumors of rumors" (or any other such gossip-fed nonsense), disputes about where certain "community property" items are (especially small, cheap ones), unnecessary legal wranglings, etc.

    2) Manipulation THROUGH the kids, or manipulation OF the kids

    To many, this is the lowest form of skullduggery. But it goes on nonetheless, doesn't it

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