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Further Insight into Female Social Behavior ividual feels less attractive and desirable, and this can make her (or him) more susceptible to attention and compliments from someone other than the spouse.Are women materialistic 'gold-diggers' or is this their social character and conditioning? For their 'make benefit' I can differentiate their actions and help justify their often erratic and nonsensical behavior.For example when J.Lo sings 'love don't cost a thing' and the next moment she is flashing off all her bling and only choosing guys with high social value, I can still differentiate that.Most guys will get confused but she is actually right. Love doesn't cost a thing but this is her naturalcharacter speaking. Her social character which glamorizes materialism is a whole different matter (like, the OPPOSITE). She represents all of those characteristics within her entire character.You also are not limited just to your 'inner game'.Remembe 2. A spouse who feels unappreciated by his (or her) partner is at higher risk for becoming involved with someone else who appreciates his good If so, then you have plenty of company. Given all the news stories and movies about cheating spouses, you’d have to be an ostrich with your head buried in the sand not to at least occasionally consider the possibility. If you’ve always said, “My husband (or wife) would never cheat on me,” you’re being unrealistic and na?ve. Most people who have affairs aren’t bad or weak individuals, but they are vulnerable at the time the affair begins. Of course, there are some husbands and wives who engage in multiple affairs and appear incapable of being faithful—that’s a different situation. In this article, I’m focusing on spouses who have a history of being faithful and then surprise themselves and others by cheating on their partner. Here are some points to consider as you consider ways to strengthen your marriage and reduce the odds that your spouse will find solace in someone else’s arms: 1. A spouse who is experiencing issues with aging and the stereotypic “mid-life crisis” is vulnerable. Self-esteem can plummet as an individual feels less attractive and desirable, and this can make her (or him) more susceptible to attention and compliments from someone other than the spouse. 2. A spouse who feels unappreciated by his (or her) partner is at higher risk for becoming involved with someone else who appreciates his good q If you’ve always said, “My husband (or wife) would never cheat on me,” you’re being unrealistic and na?ve. Most people who have affairs aren’t bad or weak individuals, but they are vulnerable at the time the affair begins. Of course, there are some husbands and wives who engage in multiple affairs and appear incapable of being faithful—that’s a different situation. In this article, I’m focusing on spouses who have a history of being faithful and then surprise themselves and others by cheating on their partner. Here are some points to consider as you consider ways to strengthen your marriage and reduce the odds that your spouse will find solace in someone else’s arms: 1. A spouse who is experiencing issues with aging and the stereotypic “mid-life crisis” is vulnerable. Self-esteem can plummet as an individual feels less attractive and desirable, and this can make her (or him) more susceptible to attention and compliments from someone other than the spouse. 2. A spouse who feels unappreciated by his (or her) partner is at higher risk for becoming involved with someone else who appreciates his good Of course, there are some husbands and wives who engage in multiple affairs and appear incapable of being faithful—that’s a different situation. In this article, I’m focusing on spouses who have a history of being faithful and then surprise themselves and others by cheating on their partner. Here are some points to consider as you consider ways to strengthen your marriage and reduce the odds that your spouse will find solace in someone else’s arms: 1. A spouse who is experiencing issues with aging and the stereotypic “mid-life crisis” is vulnerable. Self-esteem can plummet as an individual feels less attractive and desirable, and this can make her (or him) more susceptible to attention and compliments from someone other than the spouse. 2. A spouse who feels unappreciated by his (or her) partner is at higher risk for becoming involved with someone else who appreciates his good 1. A spouse who is experiencing issues with aging and the stereotypic “mid-life crisis” is vulnerable. Self-esteem can plummet as an individual feels less attractive and desirable, and this can make her (or him) more susceptible to attention and compliments from someone other than the spouse. 2. A spouse who feels unappreciated by his (or her) partner is at higher risk for becoming involved with someone else who appreciates his good 2. A spouse who feels unappreciated by his (or her) partner is at higher risk for becoming involved with someone else who appreciates his good qualities and doesn’t take him for granted. Many spouses who stray say that the mate only viewed them as a paycheck or someone to make their life easier. They didn’t feel appreciated for who they were and their positive contributions to the marriage. 3. A spouse who is in a sexless marriage is very vulnerable. This is also true when there is a sexual relationship but the partner treats sex as a “duty.” This is a sure set-up for trouble. Couples sometimes try to coast along for years in this situation, with the unhappy mate trying to tolerate the situation for the sake of the marriage and/or the children. But the reality is that the spouse is often easy prey when “hot sex” with someone who enjoys it comes along. 4. A spouse who does not feel emotionally connected to her (or his) mate is at risk. In this situation, the individual may first become involved in an emotional affair with a co-worker or business associate, and this may eventually lead to more. A marriage that is lacking intimacy and a feeling of connection between the spouses is a set-up for an affair. 5. A spouse who is depressed, anxious, and unusually stressed is at risk. When an individual is depressed, worrie
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